[RE]Jumping to conclusions

The topic was started by Sharon but I read it because of the post that Vivian did.

The phrase "don't judge a book by it's cover" basically explains it all.

^ I like this quote a lot. It's the same thing as we compare it to our world.

In my opinion this judging problem exists every where in the world, more like it's already in our personality. Also because of the ways that human perspective works. People mostly automatically judge something by what comes up in their mind right away. Say you go to a store a you see some random designed t-shirts and you found it ugly. That might because - you have never seen these kind of design before, you think the color and the drawing is ugly in your view. This fits in our world. You judge stuff but you might not speak it out loud.

However I think what people needs to do is to accept each others, we have to understand each other before you actually judge stuff. That is what I am practicing too, and it's one thing that you can never stop to do so. By the meaning of these, if we are able to think in another person's perspective, you can see the way others look at a thing. As a result you won't even judge them because you know you shouldn't have. Just like if a person never talks in class, some might randomly come up with the idea "he's a loner." However some might think he's shy, or he's fear of speaking in public. So why judging others when you never go deep and see what's the problem before you try to assume stuff pointlessly?